Compassionate Companionship Down-to-earth, good Midwestern girl with an edge here, never married and childless. I hope to find shared interests, laughs, and affection aplenty, esp. when it's rainy! Friendship first and foremost is always a winner though.
I deal with chronic migraines, balance issues, anxiety, and depression, so I'm not on the go, by far. I like quiet time, just sharing great conversation. I'm not really an outdoor person. Lakes and dog parks are cool, but I can't do any boating due to motion issues. I go to the gym now and then as I'm able, and I try to take good care of myself. I like to go target shooting and out for live music when I can. Homebody but not entirely homebound.
I'm also a lady of integrity, honest, caring, mellifluous, secure in all capacities, independent, on the quiet side but have a big personality, articulate, smart, sane, snarky, said to be very "different," quirky but no drama queen, love to laugh down to my toenails, passionate about passion and about music (both listening and playing), a Christian and a conservative (fear not; I foist neither of those things upon others), a patriot (many thanks to you who have served our country!), an animal lover (no, I don't shoot them), a computer geek, an English nerd, well-read, educated but a self-made woman, a free spirit in my responsible way, a harmless little fuzzball who loves the little things and sweet moments in life. I've been told that I'm "funny as h*ll." I don't think h*ll is any laughing matter, but I still take it as a compliment.
If you relate to any of that, great! Intellectuals, conservatives (same thing as intellectuals), music lovers and players, computer geeks, non-smokers, guys 30-ish to 45-ish, guys without kids at home, and Pinellas County residents (I'm not a good pen pal) go to the front of the line. Zero tolerance zone here for drugs. I refuse to be around anything illegal. I understand prescription meds, of course.
Thanks for reading!
Obscure, 53
currently offline
Tampa St Petersburg, FL, USA
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About Me
Gender
Female
Orientation
Straight
Height
5'04"
Weight
130 lbs
Hobbies & Interests
computers, reading, sports, target practice, travel, weather, music, internet, gardening
Body Type
fit, average, voluptuous
Movies
romance, drama, comedy, action, sci-fi
Orientation
straight
Eye Color
gray, blue
Hair Color
light brown
Ethnicity
Native American, Caucasian
Relationship
single, single - never married
Have Kids
no - do not want kids
Education Level
some college
Income level
that's private
Do you smoke?
no - will not date a smoker, no - open to dating smokers though
Do you drink?
teetotaller, no
Socially, I am
better in small groups, side kick, shy at first, but warm up quickly, home body, loner
Political Views
republican, conservative
Food Related
Vegetarian, Chinese, Comfort, Diet Every Now & Then, Hot Sauce on Everything, Indian, Vegan, Italian, Japanese, Mediterranean, Pescetarian, Spicy
Personality
loner, conservative, frugal, fun loving, geek, intellectual, romantic, lover
Religious Views
Christian
I'm looking for
conversation, dating, friends only, romance, the yin to my yang, travel companion
My Sign
i don't believe in zodiac signs
Pets
Dog, Cat
Gender
Female
Music
Metal, Heavy Metal, Chamber, Pop, Hard Rock, Rock, Gospel, Folk, Classical, Christian Rock, Bluegrass, Celtic
Hair Style
straight, long hair, layered
Health Related
western medicine, therapy, chronic health issues, chiropractic, challenging health issues
Looking for
Orientation
celibate, straight
Relationship
widowed, single - never married, single, off the market, just here for friends, divorced
Have Kids
no - do not want kids, yes - grown and out of the house
Do they smoke?
no - open to dating smokers though, electronic cigarettes, no - will not date a smoker
Political Views
reform party, republican, libertarian, independent, conservative, not interested in politics
Religious Views
Christian, Not Religious, but Spiritual, Not Religious, Jewish, Catholic, Agnostic
Gender
Male
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