I3en, 40

hey im Ben, i have spinabifida, but not to severe at least i dont think so anyway, i do pretty much anything that i want to and thats quite alot i have a pretty healthy appetite for adventure excitement pushing the limits and questioning those who try to bs me but never to the point of being too reckless or irresponsible, i crave laughter good times and making the best out of any situation because life is short and can be extremely difficult theres no point in making things worse, im told that im interesting yet complicated so i tell them theres no reward in a simple task. i tend to set examples in which others follow but common sense boils down to differentiating the right way from the wrong way which seems to be a problem people have difficulty with but i have no problem with lending a helping hand when someone needs it, in fact id rather see someone else get what they want or be happy before me theres always time later to help yourself, i know this may sound a bit arrogant but trust me im the most non arrogant person you could ever meet , i am a serious guy when i need to be though and ill tell it like it is, but enough about me, what or who im looking for is a connection with a good woman who faces life with the challenges and understandings of having a disability in todays world, i want to be able to have a relationship without all the rediculous image junk that so many people are ---- up on get over yourselves , ive been told i am a handsome dude but i am however not tall which seems to be a big deal for so many of you for some reason, and i walk different (so what) i have a big.... heart a good mind and i treat women like royalty because they all are and thats what its really all about i thought.