Emmameta, 40

i'm an intelligent and caring woman with a dark sense of humour. i will note right off the bat that i'm transgender and in a wheelchair (i have spinal muscular atrophy type ii). if that means i'm not for you, no harm done.

i work as a freelance writer, and my professional background is in philosophy and (previously) graphic design. i enjoy reading and watching movies, and i enjoy participating in competitive movie trivia leagues. other interests include music, hockey, and tabletop role-playing games.

i'm looking for a long-term partner. preferably a man between the ages of 28-40, but i would also entertain offers from women. it would be my preference that my partner is open to incorporating d/s into our relationship, but this isn't a hard requirement for me. i'm not looking to jump into anything hastily, but it should be known that my disability requires significant care, and that my future partner will end up providing much of it.

i have complicated opinions around the topic of "devoteeism". i certainly want a partner who is capable of appreciating my atypical body, but at the same time disability is something i have tried to transcend my whole life. disability will never be something i value in myself, and i need a partner who will complete me and make me feel whole. if disability is something that you value in me, please try not to be obvious about it. in our courtship, if i find you are more interested in my condition than who i am as a person, i will lose interest quickly.

all that said, if you would like to get to know me more, please send me a message!