Candacel, 54

I'm not only going to be honest I am going to be forthcoming and lay some specifics out there. In 20 days my divorce will be final. It is the end of a legal bond, however, the marriage slowly died over time. I am a dialysis patient. I no longer want to wait for life to happen. I enjoy being fully present in the moments of my life, even in those mundane moments where making a cup of tea is the highlight. I have tremendous hope in people and in what I can learn from life experiences. I am on a kidney transplant list and I would like to surround myself with passionate, warm, creative, intelligent people who care about their own lives, bodies and looks and can walk a day in my shoes without falling apart emotionally or being patronizing.

I love the Lord God, though I have fallen to in---------- and bad judgment on more than one occasion. I love to share my faith by acting out of love and concern for others in the hopes that they will see Jesus in me and want him for themelves. I don't expect constant miracles or perfection. I'd just like to meet and vibe with you in a way where we gain srength from each other to face our lives boldly and positively so we enjoy every moment. Presence of mind is a beautiful journey.