Bigheartlove60, 75

other people will have more compassion Hello,
my name is Pat I am from Alabama, just about 20 miles west of Gadsden near the big Mountaintop Flea Mkt.I have been a single mother, I raised three beautiful kids alone, their father decided he didnt want the responsibiliy of being married with a family. He left when thekids were very small, and hasnt been back, he has never been in their lives. The times were always hard especially financially because of course there was never any childsupport, I worked two jobs for a long time, then one job and picked up spare money the best I could but my morals were and are very high. There was no kind of illegal money. we are all chrisitans. my kids were raised in church,
I guess my main disability has been im a plusize woman. most people dont look at it being a disability and it really isnt, my life has been one huge diet. it just has interfered more since I have gotten older. I have raised kids worked and done any and more than some. I have some back and leg problems now but still get around just slower, im not in a wheelchair, I am very loving and compassionate and treat people all as one and always put others before me.Im one to spoil people I care for.
my hobbies are the computer, music as in country gospel , classical rock, reading. I was fortunate to have a good education, People tell me im a good conversationalist, im not shy unless its with or around intimidating, people who sterotype larger people. I can be a friend to one and all, but will not tolerte verbal and or physical abuse. We are all put here by God for a purpose.Im not a huge fan of movies, but I can respect my friends hobbies and if that is loving movies I will set down and watch anything with him.
my kids are all out on their own,I live alone, and that does get lonely, I have no other kin except my kids , I was an only child, parents gone on to be with God. I have a 28 yr daughter and a loving wonderful soninlaw. The twins are boys 26 yr , live together and work.Thank you for reading.