Bigbren, 74

My good qualities? Good, kind, sincere, told I'm beautiful still, I clean up good (lol) but can also roll up my sleeves...pull my hair back...skip the make up and get the work done. This summer I've been painting the garage doors, fences, deck etc. I clean my home and care for my 8 year old grandson..the love of my life. I am a former medical office manager from Maine. I became disabled in 2008 with arthritis. My back is pretty well shot and I do walk bent forward and use a cane. Yeah...I look funny when I walk for sure. I've had surgery and unfortunately had complications. I intend to get a couple more opinions in hopes of being able to walk better. My pain is minimal sometimes and severe occasionally. All in all I'm in pretty good shape for the shape I'm in I tend to be a caregiver as I'm always the one to count on. Positively? I have a lot to offer as far as love, devotion, fun, intelligent conversation etc. I want someone to be close to again. I am a lover, not a fighter. I don't like debates or confrontation. I am looking for my best friend and mate for the rest of my life but not necessarily marriage.