Benjamindavid, 56
currently offlineRural Area, OH, USA
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Looking for the love of my life
I am an incomplete paraplegic, due to Guillain-Barre‚ Syndrome at age 7. I need either crutches and leg braces or a wheelchair to get around. I do not smoke, I am drug and disease free and I intend to stay that way. I am looking for a strong platonic friendship first, and am open to more if the right person who truly loves me comes along. I am not looking for a "one night stand", but someone who can be a lifelong friend. I am looking for someone who can love me and accept me for who I am. I have learned to accept my disability, and I do not mind if someone is attracted to me for my disability, but I hope it is for more and that I am accepted as a total person. I have Asperger's Syndrome which is a very high functioning form of Autism, that is quite different than "Classic Autism", but is still on the Autism Spectrum. I am on disability, and have not worked for many years. So I have all the time in the world, but not much in the way of income. I am willing to relocate for the right person, who will love me and will treat me right. I have started using a power chair due to osteoarthritis from years of use of crutches and leg braces. If you are interested, please feel free to email me and we can get to know each other better... and who knows what will happen. What I look for in a friend is someone who is open, honest, candid, intelligent, and has a good sense of humor. Those requirements mean more than anything. It is what I give, and it is what I would like in return. I am a very conservative person in general, and I am also a person of great faith (I am of Jewish Heritage, and I was raised a Roman Catholic...I have had both my Bar Mitzvah and my Confirmation, and I am very devout in both traditions of my faith... my family turned to the Roman Catholic Church to escape the Anti-Semitism of pre-WW2 Europe, but my Jewish Heritage has always remained strong my entire life), but I do not "force" it on anyone.
About Me
Gender
Male
Orientation
Bisexual
Height
6'02"
Weight
280 lbs
Body Type
a few extra pounds, overweight, disabled
Movies
action, bollywood, romantic comedy, indie, drama, horror, romance, sci-fi, comedy
Orientation
bisexual, gay, asexual
Eye Color
brown
Hair Color
light brown
Ethnicity
Caucasian
Relationship
single - never married
Have Kids
no - maybe with the right person
Education Level
post-Graduate
Profession
Other
Income level
Less than $25,000
Do you smoke?
no - will not date a smoker
I currently live
with roommate(s)
Socially, I am
shy at first, but warm up quickly, home body, better in small groups
Political Views
conservative, republican
Food Related
Spicy, Vegetarian, Italian, Chinese, Japanese, French, Indian, Omnivore
Personality
geek, lover, romantic, intellectual, conservative, introvert
Religious Views
Christian, Jewish, Catholic
I'm looking for
soulmate, romance, relationship, dating, conversation, mr. right
My Sign
i was born in july, cancer : june 21-july 22
Pets
Dog, Dogs
Gender
Male
Fitness & Sports
swimming
Looking for
Orientation
asexual, bisexual, celibate, gay, straight
Relationship
single - never married, widowed, separated, open relationship, divorced
Do they smoke?
no - open to dating smokers though, no - will not date a smoker
Do they drink?
in recovery, no, socially, teetotaller
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Back Problems
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Arthritis
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Depression
1082 membersA group for those who have been diagnosed with depression, a mental health condition characterized by persistent feelings of sadness and hopelessness.
Mobility Disability
842 membersA group for those with a mobility disability, such as paralysis or amputation.
Spinal Cord Injury
423 membersA group for those with a spinal cord injury, which can cause paralysis, loss of sensation, and other physical and mental disabilities.
Chronic Fatigue Syndrome
239 membersA group for those who have been diagnosed with Chronic Fatigue Syndrome, a condition characterized by extreme fatigue and other symptoms.
Seeking Romance
1631 membersA group for those who are seeking a romantic relationship.
Seeking Companionship
1398 membersA group for those who are seeking companionship, either with someone with a disability or without.
Seeking Long-term Relationship
2126 membersA group for those who are seeking a long-term, committed relationship.
Autism
315 membersA group for individuals on the autism spectrum, from those with mild symptoms to those with severe.
Incontinence
155 membersA group for those who suffer from incontinence, or the inability to control their bladder or bowel movements.
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