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neilc350
neilc350
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If you weren't disabled got married then got disabled. When you
were ok wife gets uti everyday and hated s--. Then you got disabled and now you still could have S-- but the woman ontop and she got better after you were disabled. Then she wanted S-- from other men that can be ontop because now she loves S-- and never spent time with you. Would you be mad at her?
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fatuglyguy
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`No, not cause of the s--.. You see, my wife got cancer and it caused her to hate being touched jn any fashion. I developed my sickness after she passed and now. I can't have S-- but still enjoy voyeurism. so there are many aspects of S-- that can still be shared it's when she cuts you out of her life that you must move on and then you can get upset, because now she's not a part of your life. but just cause of S-- not being what you can give her or not give her that's not a reason to get mad.
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katieb1
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I have been disabled all my life and have never engaged in sex, but, hypothetically speaking had my partner gone to somebody else for S-- yes, I would be mad. I think I would feel hurt and betrayed as well as disgusted. LOYALTY AND TRUST MUST EXIST IN A RELATIONSHIP, OTHERWISE THERE IS NO RELATIONSHIP.
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deloris9
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`i wouldnt so much as to get mad,being that maybe you should have spoken to her about her performance in bed.she probably thought the problem lyed with you(b4 you was disable.it wasnt until you became disable that she started liking sex(maybe,because she was on top n in control or something,im not sure.now she moving on,which is sad.because she leavin a relationship for better sex(but a ------ is hard to get when your the woman.we must be open to our partners about s--.remove all the fears,hurt feeling,n insurcies about our body as well as their own.s-- can be great n long last for everyone
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aclpsss
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First, I know these kinds of issues regarding wanting/not-wanting S-- are not unique to the handicapped. While the whole issue of being mad is a real issue, can I ask an off sides question?
Do handicapped people want S-- but find others avoid them sufficiently that they don't get a S-- life?
How could someone else, approach you to start an intimate relationship? :
Al (just me) |
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wuffjustice
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`Interesting subject this.........
The way I see it is like this........we all want sex! If I'm right and we do want S-- then why can't we tell others and maybe come to some sort of mutual assistance with each other and become Bonking Buddies?
This might sound a bit crass but why not? If you go to a friends house, you might talk openly and honest about anything on any subject and yet folk feel bad about asking that person for s--..........Maybe what's needed is a Disabled Bonking Club.
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dynamite12
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`Well, I'm new to this forum, and i came across this post which sounded interesting - in a sense because I'm not married and still a virgin. So I may not be in a position to comment on a married life. But one is sure that TRUST IS THE FOUNDATION OF ANY RELATIONSHIP AND IF THAT IS BROKEN THEN THERE RELATIONSHIP BECOMES FRAGILE. So before the relationship ends talk to your spouse and clear everything as what is her priority.
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yojojo12
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`I don't know (aspergers) Im anti-Sexual
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