Shonuf77shogun, 59

Looking for someone special.... I'm a semi-retired technology professional looking for a fun & loving female companion to share quality time. I'm no Denzel, but my friends and family say I'm handsome enough to be seen in public. Well groomed, humorous, diverse, trustworthy and patient are how most would describe me. I consider myself romantic/passionate and very comfortable showing affection. I am not a player, and really there's no Don Juan DeMarco skills here... rather a confident (not arrogant), strong gentleman. I enjoy having fun and uncontrollable laughter happens often around me. I believe in being faithful and keeping my word, and would appreciate the same respect.

I'd like to meet someone who isn't overly judgmental (we all are in one way or another, but balance and reasoning are key), materialistic (I'm a giver, but have experienced one too many gold-diggers (love that song...LOL). A near drama-free woman that's uninhibited and willing to dive-in to fill the glass (it's truly not half empty!) Honesty and sincerity is key. Ladies, if you start most of your sentences with "to be perfectly honest with you, we probably wont get beyond a first date. Just be yourself and keep it real. Im open-minded and can deal with just about anything that true.

I have a few "unique" thoughts on the perfect first date. The norm usually includes a nice dinner, a walk with good conversation, and dancing is a must (R&B, salsa, country line...doesn't matter). I'm thinking about learning either ballroom or swing this summer. You can usually find me on the YAH with the same name above. I like woman so, if you pee sitting down, capable of holding down a decent conversation, and want a good man or friend... pinch me (hard!!). My disability is that I have RP (retinitis pigmentosa). I have lost my perpheral vision, but see what's in front of me just fine.