Eberns, 72

To love and help each other I am looking for someone who lives in the NYC metro area from Westchester to Brooklyn/Queens.

My disability is not of an obvious type (see below), however I may be able to appreciate someone who is also affected in similar ways as me even if the cause is different.

I was born prematurely. The effects are subtle and would not be noticed by most people. I am affected physically by below average weight and sports skills, but especially psychologically--my childhood experience, social skills, relationships, etc. I am affected both positively and negatively by having been born prematurely.

It is difficult for me to know who would be a suitable match since I have no personal experience with other disabilities so it will depend on what you need and want. As with any relationship, the question of chemistry--mental, emotional and physical also applies. Of greatest importance to me is to love and be loved and we should want to help each other in this and in other ways to improve each other's lives.

As a practical matter, I am a vegetarian so I am looking for someone who has also made this lifestyle choice. I have a digital photo of me I can e-mail to you. I look younger than my age so it would be good if you do also.