Arealfa, 66
currently offlineTucson, AZ, USA
Care Giver seeks SSBBW
Disabled SSBBW Wanted I am looking for a very large SSBBW that needs a care giver mate. I was married to an Ultra Sized SSBBW for 30 years. When she passed away I realized that I have changed into a care giver and don't know how to be anyone else. My house is completely set up and there are many devices to help make a very large person be self reliant. I hate to let this knowledge lapse and not show someone else how I can make her life better. I would love to make that special person feel loved for who she is rather than despised for what she looks like. I love going places with a large woman and showing the public what love is and how it does not mater what you look like. I am a protective person and will not let the public berate or put her down. I have the things it takes to help someone who does not normally go out in public enjoy going places again. I can make her comfortable in a vehicle even for long trips or camping. I love being needed and will be the most dedicated mate ever. I am very affectionate and love to hug, kiss and cuddle. Race Religion age looks body shape height or disability don't matter, size does. I am very comfortable with wheelchairs and other personal aids. I have designed many special devices to help someone be self reliant, such as a portable beday and an external catheter wit no insertion needed. I have made a 1000 lb Hoyer style lift and many slings to lift and transfer a very large person. I have modified many cars so a large person can drive or be more comfortable as a passenger. I am a natural engineer and always thinking of something to make life easier. I have become an expert with skin issues and wound care and can give one of the best bed baths ever. I've been working for nearly 50 years (dad had a machine shop)and needed to create these things to help keep me at work. So if you are or know a very large woman (400 to 800 lbs)that would like to meet me please contact me. love to be needed and care giving is in my sole.
About Me
Gender
Male
Orientation
Straight
Height
5'08"
Weight
200 lbs
Hobbies & Interests
television, target practice, science, larp, killing zombies, internet, fleamarkets, computers, board games
Body Type
a few extra pounds
Movies
fantasy, murder mysteries, psychological thrillers, sci-fi, classics, romance, romantic comedy, black & white films, animation, drama, action, comedy
Orientation
heteroflexible, straight
Eye Color
gray
Hair Color
white / gray
Ethnicity
Caucasian
Relationship
widowed
Have Kids
yes - grown and out of the house
Education Level
Bachelor's Degree
Profession
Technical / Science / Engineering
Income level
$50,000-$100,000
Do you smoke?
no - open to dating smokers though
Do you drink?
beer
I currently live
alone
Socially, I am
home body, better in small groups
Political Views
not interested in politics
Food Related
Carnivore, Candy is a Food Group, Right?, Diet Phobic, Fast Food, Junk Food Junkie, Mexican, Chinese, Chocoholic, Comfort
Personality
activist, conservative, frugal, geek, intellectual, liberal, lover, nerd, professional, romantic
Individuality
designer, rocket scientist
Religious Views
Christian
I'm looking for
soulmate, relationship, miss right
My Sign
leo : july 23-aug. 22
Military Service
reserves
Pets
Fish, Cat
Gender
Male
Music
R and B, Bluegrass, Choir, Classical, Dance, Folk, Hard Rock, House, Jazz, Jazz-Fusion, Pop, Post Rock, Trance, Techno, Rock, Reggae, Progressive Rock
Hair Style
buzz cut
Fitness & Sports
swimming
Health Related
minor dietary issues, minor health issues
Languages
English
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My Groups(5)
Long-Term Disability
1241 membersA group for those with a long-term disability, such as a physical or mental disability that affects their ability to work.
Wheelchair User
1045 membersA group for those who use a wheelchair, a device used to assist with mobility.
Walker User
264 membersA group for those who use a walker, a device used to assist with mobility.
Caregiver
220 membersA group for those who are providing care to a loved one, such as a parent, spouse, or child, who is disabled or suffering from a chronic illness.
Incontinence
153 membersA group for those who suffer from incontinence, or the inability to control their bladder or bowel movements.
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