Alnilam11, 45
currently offlineRural Area, KS, USA
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T4 para -- so what?
T4 para -- so what? Describe myself... I hate this part. I'm a one-legged T4 para, but that's not who I am. I hunt, fish, camp, hike, drive, fly, ride horses, teach archery and fencing... all from my chair. I'm a blend of so many things, a paradox of life. But I hope I can say that I'm a good man. I've made my mistakes the same as we all do, but I've learned from them and I suppose that's what counts. I've come to enjoy the little things, and the big things, and the things in between. All of life is a mystery, and an adventure, and a pleasure once you learn to look at it the right way. After 32 years of struggling, I've finally come to a point where I am content with life and who I am... the only thing missing is a woman who can understand me. I've seen things no man should ever have to witness, and I've seen things few people on this earth are ever privileged to. I've lost more than most people are ever given... and yet I keep trying. And this is the secret to life, to take one day at a time -- making the best of all that comes, and the least of all that goes. I'm very independent, but want someone to share life with. Think you can keep up? This is what I'm seeking... a woman who has seen the darkness, yet revels in the light. I want to find a beautiful Lady who is looking for her Knight, a woman who is filled with passion but is also familiar with wisdom and temperance. I want a woman who's eyes are windows into a soul as complex and undefinable as my own, who is not afraid of my wheels (I would almost prefer if she has a set of wheels of her own, but if you don't and you think you can handle mine then we'll give it a go!). I want a woman who can be comfortable in elegance or casual blue jeans because she knows it is her heart that is her best feature. If you fit these, or if I've intrigued you and given you a moments pause, then contact me and we'll see what happens.
About Me
Gender
Male
Orientation
Straight
Height
6'03"
Weight
190 lbs
Hobbies & Interests
bible study, cooking & recipes, fishing, horseback riding, hunting, movies, music, photography, reading, sports, target practice, wine tasting, writing
Body Type
average, disabled
Movies
action, comedy, drama, romance, romantic comedy, sci-fi
Orientation
straight
Eye Color
brown
Hair Color
dark brown
Ethnicity
Caucasian, Native American
Relationship
divorced
Have Kids
no - maybe with the right person
Education Level
high school grad, some college, currently in college
Profession
Education / Academic Research, Other
Income level
that's private
Do you smoke?
no - will not date a smoker
Do you drink?
liquor, socially, wine
I currently live
with roommate(s)
Socially, I am
better in small groups, shy at first, but warm up quickly
Political Views
independent
Food Related
Carnivore, Chinese, Fine Dining, Italian, Japanese, Mediterranean, Soul Food, Sushi
Personality
flirt, frugal, geek, intellectual, introvert, jock, lover, nerd, pirate, professional, redneck, romantic, type a
Individuality
pirate at heart
Religious Views
Catholic, Christian, Deist, Not Religious, but Spiritual
I'm looking for
conversation, dating, fun, miss right, miss right now, relationship, romance, something interesting, soulmate, the yin to my yang, travel companion
My Sign
leo : july 23-aug. 22
Military Service
air force
Pets
Rock
Gender
Male
Music
Alternative Rock, Bluegrass, Celtic, Classical, Country, Jazz, Pop, Rock
Hair Style
short hair
Fitness & Sports
fencing, hiking, martial arts, swimming, working out
Health Related
challenging health issues, minor health issues
Looking for
Their Body Type
a few extra pounds, supermodel, slim, slender, skinny, fit, disabled, bodybuilder, average, athletic
Do they smoke?
no - open to dating smokers though, no - will not date a smoker, only when I drink, socially
Gender
Female
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My Groups(8)
Paraplegic
324 membersA group for those with paraplegia, a paralysis of the lower half of the body.
Wheelchair User
1055 membersA group for those who use a wheelchair, a device used to assist with mobility.
Disabled Athlete
205 membersA group for athletes with disabilities, such as amputation, paralysis, or blindness.
Mobility Disability
842 membersA group for those with a mobility disability, such as paralysis or amputation.
Spinal Cord Injury
423 membersA group for those with a spinal cord injury, which can cause paralysis, loss of sensation, and other physical and mental disabilities.
Amputee
245 membersA group for those who have had an amputation, or the surgical removal of a limb.
Seeking Long-term Relationship
2126 membersA group for those who are seeking a long-term, committed relationship.
Seeking Others Who Understand
1320 membersA group for those who are seeking others who understand their disability or illness.
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