| View previous topic :: View next topic   | 
	
	
	
		| Author | 
		Message | 
	
	
		wheels216
 
  
		     
	      wheels216 
		 
		Joined: April 7, 2008 
		Posts: 1
 
  | 
		
			
				 Posted:     Post subject: Lonely, but not living alone | 
				  | 
			 
			
				    
  | 
			 
			
				I live with my parents, my nephew, his girlfriend and my cat, and it's like I'm the only one here sometimes.  I am an outgoing, friendly and intelligent woman, and yet, I feel so isolated it's starting to really get to me.  I can't get out much anymore because I lost my ride back in April with the MTA Mobility Van Service.  I am also unemployed, naturally.  I'm at a real standstill, here.  I'm just wondering how one can keep thining positive during a time like this.  I know I'm having a real rough time right now.  Any suggestions? :)
 
 
Take care,
 
 
wheels216 | 
			 
		  | 
	
	
		| Back to top | 
		 | 
	
	
		  | 
	
	
		marie56
 
  
		     
	      marie56 
		 
		Joined: September 7, 2008 
		Posts: 3
 
  | 
		
			
				 Posted:     Post subject:  | 
				  | 
			 
			
				    
  | 
			 
			
				`Wheels , I know what it is like to be lonley with others around. I hope you got my emails . I am NOT gay, just want to be friends.  I sent you a couple of emails, hope that you got them.  I suppose living with your relatives , they see you as disabled, but not as a person who is more capable than incapable. You need to see yourself in a different light.  Chances are they are not going to help you do that, (but reletives are slow to change)  I was emailing a man who is in a wheelchair and could not talk, (he lived with his sister)  but now he's got a new love who is going to move in with him soon, but I miss him terribly, but I am happy for him. It took me a while to convince him that what he had to offer someone was much better than what he did not have.  I also have a disabled son who cannot talk.  I am a great believer in prayer and will pray for you even if you don't write me back, but I hope you do. thanks!
 
 
 | 
			 
		  | 
	
	
		| Back to top | 
		 | 
	
	
		  | 
	
	
		rubbertoe
 
  
		     
	      rubbertoe 
		 
		Joined: May 3, 2009 
		Posts: 6
 
  | 
		
			
				 Posted:     Post subject:  | 
				  | 
			 
			
				    
  | 
			 
			
				`wheels the mind is a 3 pound universe, i know that's easy for me to say.
 
What i would do some times is, close my eyes for a moment open them and think "what if" that was my world --- it is so many.
 
Ther's so much in life for you to foccus on (ie telly dvd's  pc wildlife the news etc)
 
Hope i haven't peefed you off.
 
 
 | 
			 
		  | 
	
	
		| Back to top | 
		 | 
	
	
		  | 
	
	
		rubbertoe
 
  
		     
	      rubbertoe 
		 
		Joined: May 3, 2009 
		Posts: 6
 
  | 
		
			
				 Posted:     Post subject:  | 
				  | 
			 
			
				    
  | 
			 
			
				| [deleted] | 
			 
		  | 
	
	
		| Back to top | 
		 | 
	
	
		  | 
	
	
		deloris9
 
  
		     
	      deloris9 
		 
		Joined: October 16, 2009 
		Posts: 69
 
  | 
		
			
				 Posted:     Post subject:  | 
				  | 
			 
			
				    
  | 
			 
			
				`lol.gurl, im in the same boat as  u.it always amaze me that i live on this planet surrounded by billions of ppl,yet ..i still feel alone. i  always heard that there some1 4 every 1...mmm...i think the jury is still out on that 1. when ur a child u believe in easter bunny 2 monsters under ur bed,but u know theres  always going 2 b some1 there 2 protect u.but as u grow up n u know better..u also learn that no 1 isnt  going 2 be there 4 u in the end
 
 
 
 
 | 
			 
		  | 
	
	
		| Back to top | 
		 | 
	
	
		  | 
	
	
		 |