lonely man needs help, not doing something right

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It has been a very lonely 2 years since my divorce. I need to find that right kind of woman to fill the hole left in me by my x wife. I have tryed meny difrent online datting services and ended up wasting money (that is in short supply for me). I live on a monthly SSI gov disabilty check. Every datting service I have tryed I end up with e-mails replys saying not interested in you or no reply at all. Or I get the same following types of woman that attract to me. (and I am going to be blunt). Woman that have a few screws lose, or ones that try to take me to the cleaners money wise or both. And the ones that look at my profile and do 1st contact are mostly from someware in Africa and thay are NOT after a solemate or a long term relashionship. All thay want is to scam someone into sending money so thay can get over to the USA.
I don't know what I am doing wrong. Is it in the way I word my profile and the words I use in the e-mails I send out? I don't know how to use those big fancy words that sweep woman off there feet. All I know is I am lonely and depressed, noware/noone localy to turn to, and need help.

Steve

[bijouiluvu_PREV (deleted)]

Dear Steve: I can really relate to your message. I think you would be mistaken if you think everyone else is meeting people in these groups. I know I am no raving beauty but no-one decent is contacting me either. All we can do is keep trying as it is very lonely being alone.

[littlemiss2075 (deleted)]

It is true that not alot of people find other decent people at dating sites. I can say what my impression is after reading your post there. I am not judging you in th eleast, but I would do spell checks on your posts, and I would say if your looking for someone to fill a void like you said, I am not sure any person can truthfully do that. You have to fill the void inside yourself first and then women can pick up on that confidence. I think that also no matter what you do your lucky if you find someone decent on a dating site. Unfortunately these days you can't trust too many people, and alot of people also judge. Women are afraid to answer posts from men and probably just as scared of you as you are of them being nutty, or taking them for money. So therefore, the onyl ones with guts enough to write is the scammers and the ones with a few loose screws. I really wish you luck, I hope you have found that lucky lady

[raoel_PREV (deleted)]

or to try and 'fill someones shoes" which really we cannot.!! We are all unique---and have different personalities, and ideals. Time is a healer- and heal we must; before we can move on, and sometimes we try too hard--to find the right one, not allowing time and our journey's chance to have its way. All things have a purpose and a time---"all our own" we can't make happen---what is__"not to be" or__persue what is not "ours"---we must allow our life's energies to work together...with whomever--whatever--wherever---the universe has for us----its only then we can be truely happy Best of luck to everyone!!