SEX INVOLVING HAVING CEREBRAL PALSY & A CATHETER

[darling1961]

I BELIEVE THAT IF BOTH OF YOU ARE WILLING TO WORK ON WHAT YOU CAN DO TO SATISFY EACH OTHER WITHOUT HAVING INTERCOURSE THEN NO INTERCOURSE ISN'T AN ISSUE. WHEN I TALK TO A MAN EVENUALLY THE "SEX" SUBJECT COMES UP THEN WHEN HE FINDS OUT THAT I HAVE A CATHETER WHICH MEANS CAN'T HAVE INTERCOURSE BUT THERE'S OTHER WAYS TO SATISFY EACH OTHER WE CAN EXPLORE TO FIND OUT WHAT THE WAYS ARE, HE EITHER DISAPPEARS RIGHT AWAY OR LIES BY SAYING "SO? THAT'S NOT A PROBLEM" THEN DISAPPEARS LITTLE BY LITTLE! I HATE LIARS & GAMERS! DON'T YOU?

IS THERE ANYONE ELSE THAT BELIEVES THE SAME VIEW? OR RAN INTO THE SAME PROBLEM? ANY SUGGESTIONS?

THANKS,

DARLING1961

[(deleted)]

`Yes, i agree with you. They must be honest. Not liars and gamers are welcome in this website. They should be very honest right from the beginning. Well, there are some lovely people and hope you meet them. Take care.

[cousinjim]

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I had a lover with CP and we used her catheter as a S-- toy; and doing it doggy style works just fine.

[spectre3176 (deleted)]

I think it dosent really matter if your partner really cares they will see you for what you are. I think it is better to explain your 'situation' and discuss it fully before S-- i have and it works I use a cath and manage some sort of S-- and found that getting your partner to help with really intimate aspects of my dis helps.

[tanabear]

`I agree totally, I have no -----, I am capible of awesome sex, I have even orgasamed.