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teri24ns
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How many of you are actually honestly okay with waiting before having S-- with someone you've met online?
Do you believe that the woman/man should be willing that very first date? A second date?
Does how far you travel to meet have any say in how patient you may be?
I'm quite conventional & this worries me to no end. I've never really had a 'date' & have no true idea how this stuff works. I want to find someone but don't want to feel like I 'owe' them something for coming to meet me....
Any suggestions & honest answers would be so welcomed...
Thanks
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tedinwyo
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`There shouldnt be a certain set number of dates before s--. I would prefer it to be an open subject of discussion. I dont have alot of drive, but adore a hug and a kiss and the closeness of a relationship. It would take alot of patience on someones part to have S-- with me. Ive been in a chair for 2 yrs now and havent had the chance to try so I dont know if I can.
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tanabear
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`When it is right, you both will know. If I travel to meet a ladies, I expect to meet a nice fun person, not to get laid.
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lizard403
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`It all depends on when you both feel comfortable--Some women I knew --it was the first night--some others--3 months.
Dont rush it.-If the only thing about a relationship is sex--it will not last long.
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unbeatablepride
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`::I realize the original poster is no longer a member::
Expect--demand? First half hour, at least.
The reality is we're better prepared to be rejected over the course of the relationship than we are to find someone willing to accept us for what we are and learn about one more part of us.
Good S-- doesn't make up for lousy conversation, but if your communication and passion have been stunted for awhile getting back into the groove my be difficult. If a person doesn't come across well in coversation the likely hood of good S-- is low. But the experience of S-- may just be the key to opening up the whole package again. Some just need comfort, trust and support to get their feet back on the ground and live again.
The answer is you have to be honest with yourself and your partner. I really haven't decided if symp S-- is good or bad.
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