There are real people on here you know?

[oldangrey (deleted)]

I am an ordenary bloke ( i think), and all i ask is to have a good chat with other people here, i am Married(in profile) i ask for nothing more (in profile),, i am not a pervert ( in court lol) i just like to chat with females,, you see all the people i get to chat with are men, but i like/love chatting to ladies, But they are all put off by the word man/male and married ,,ok i know there are realy bad people here, but some of us are who we say we are,,,,, Male have you had this problem??? Females have you had this feeling???? tell us about your thoughts on this subject please...

[dixie_PREV (deleted)]

I also am married and I am a woman and no one chats with me either. So I don't think it's just you. Dixie

[oldangrey (deleted)]

Well Dixie we could start a new trend and chat to each other LOL
i wonder if it might catch on?

[devorella]

I'm not sure "put off" is the way to phrase it really. It isn't in my case anyway. I joined this site looking for a relationship. That makes me a bit "goal oriented". When I run across men who are only looking for a chat I tend to shy away because I'm here looking for my own guy not to chat with someone else's.

[oldangrey (deleted)]

Hi Devorella,, yes i can see your point, thanks for making it,, i hadn't looked at it in that way, i surpose i was goal orientated in my way by looking only for people to chat with LOL its a confusing world LOL,, thanks,, Big kiss at christmas if you can wait that long Den xxx

[pattim (deleted)]

Hey old an gray....shoot all i wanna do is make a few friends myself....heck I'll even chat with your wife
There are a lot of men who want an internet mistress....puhleeeeeze....
that just makes me laugh. I'm stuck inside due to my disability at this point and just love people. My former friends stopped coming around after awhile and the only exposure i get is in this monitor....now please...do not expose yerself to me.... Seriously, if you'd like to chat and just make friends I'm in to it totally.

[pinkshamrock (deleted)]

if you would like to talk feel free to IM me. lol i love to gab. lol i was a member before but i did not get any kind of replies and i thought hmmm what am i doing wrong. than when i did get replies i get the h---- ones. oh boy lucky me. i'm being sarcastic. lol I just want to chat.

[budrflypattie53]

I know I'm ready to give up on the idea of dating because I too notice that nobody chats with me either. It gets very depressing. I thought I would meet lots of people here but it hasn't happened yet. :(

[johnsmithtoo_PREV (deleted)]

Wow and I was begining to think I was the only one this happens to.
If a person isn't interested, they could politely say so.
I guess my profile is bland and boring. lol
I don't think I'm really looking for a date anymore. I'd just like to be able to make contact with someone. Just to share s--- with online. I don't get out much. Thought online would be a great way to "meet" people and chat.
Guess I was wrong. My messenger list is practically empty.