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  • BACKDOORSAXMAN Identifies As:
  • Gender: Male
  • Orientation:Straight
  • STATS Height: 5'09"
  • Weight: 220 lbs
  • Age: 59 years old.

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My Description

2-time cancer survivor hip replacement BK amputee

I refuse to be 'brought down' by my disability. I never feel sorry for myself. When I first heard the doctor say that, I had something in my brain. Something that could kill me, I thought to myself, "Oh well, just another 'speed bump' in the road." It actually shocked me, looking back, that I never even prayed, the entire time I was receiving chemotherapy that year. That aspect of my deficits, would ultimately change me for the better. My Lord Jesus Christ is more important to me now than ever, because of my disabilities. Because of cancer and chemotherapy, eventually, I lost my right hip. Just when I thought it was over with, years later, I also lost my left leg below the knee. You would think at some point, I would just 'cave' to the circumstances, but that's not who I am. There is determination in my life, to make every moment count. Not just survive, but thrive. I play music that can sooth my soul and make others smile. That is the way I 'fight back'. That is the way I deny defeat. I become creative. I play sax, of course! guitar, bass, keyboards, anything I can get my hands on! I think about every aspect of my 'rough patches' as opportunities to see God overcome in my life. When I feel conflicted, I write. A story, a poem, a song... something. Anything to contrast the 'darkness' with light. The smothering silence with song. My very first discovery, as a child was being able to draw. To make comics, pictures... something beautiful. Maybe you'd think that this is a way to just 'escape'. Yeah, I guess so... I exercise, listening to my favorite jazz music. Keeping fit and being inspired. Eventually, I would like to get a special prosthetic leg, so that I can start jogging again like I did years ago. I keep a positive attitude. It takes a lot to get me down. I can make anything into a special occasion. I also really enjoy nature. Tough t

About Me  (My Interests / Hobbies / Groups)

Hobbies & Interests
writing, television, shopping, science, reading, photography, painting, nature, music, movies, internet, bible study, computers, fleamarkets
Body Type
average, fit, disabled
animation, black & white films, classics, comedy, drama, fantasy, psychological thrillers, romantic comedy, sci-fi, action
Eye Color
Hair Color
light brown
Have Kids
yes - grown and out of the house
Education Level
some college
Other, Technical / Science / Engineering
Income level
Less than $25,000
Do you smoke?
no - open to dating smokers though
Do you drink?
I currently live
Socially, I am
loner, better in small groups, home body
Political Views
republican, conservative
Food Related
Omnivore, Lactose Intolerant (am I sharing too much?), Carnivore
extrovert, intellectual, loner, nerd, pirate, conservative, romantic, artistic, thrifty, type a
pirate at heart, rocket scientist, sculptor
Religious Views
hard of hearing
does coffee count?, straight edge
I'm looking for
penpal, conversation, relationship, soulmate
Gospel, Alternative Rock, Christian Rock, Classical, Funk, Techno, Hard Rock, Jazz, Jazz-Fusion, Motown, Progressive Rock, R and B, Rock, Soul, Trance
Hair Style
short hair
Fitness & Sports
working out
Health Related
diabetic, in remission
My Preferred Pronouns
No Pronoun Preference

Wheelchair User ; Back Problems ; Diabetes Type-2 ; Seeking Romance ; Cancer Survivor ; Mobility Disability ; Slight Hearing Loss ; Amputee

About My Match  (What I'm looking for)

Hobbies & Interests
reading, robotics, science, sculpting, sewing, shopping, target practice, television, travel, video games, weather, writing, acting, baking, bible study, board games, comic books, computers, cooking & recipes, cosplay, coupon clipping, cruises, dancing, fleamarkets, gardening, history, horseback riding, internet, manga, mime, movies, music, nature, painting, photography, puzzles and brain teasers
Their Body Type
a few extra pounds, athletic, average, disabled, fit, large, overweight, pleasantly plump, skinny, slender, slim, supermodel, thick, voluptuous
action, animation, black & white films, classics, comedy, drama, fantasy, indie, mockumentaries, psychological thrillers, romance, romantic comedy, sci-fi
Hair Color
a little gray, depends on the day of the week
Their Ethnicity
African American, Asian, Biracial, Caucasian, Hispanic / Latino, Inter-racial, Mixed Race, Native American, Other, Pacific Islander, Vulcan
divorced, separated, single, single - never married, widowed
Have Kids
yes - grown and out of the house
Their Education Level
Bachelor's Degree, college grad, currently in college, Doctorate, graduate school, high school grad, Master's Degree, post-Graduate, some college, some high school
Agriculture / Farming, Artistic / Musical, Banking / Financial Services / Real Estate, Clerical / Administrative, Computer related / Hardware, Construction / Craftsman, Education / Academic Research, Entertainment / Media, Executive / Management, Fashion Industry / Modeling / Beauty, Food Service, Hospitality / Travel, Internet, Journalist / Writer, Legal Services, Manufacturing / Distributions, Medical / Health Services, Other, Plumbing / Electrical / Contracting, Politics / Goverment / Military, Sales / Marketing, Technical / Science / Engineering, Transportation / Trucking
Income level
Less than $25,000
Do they smoke?
no - open to dating smokers though
Do they drink?
They currently live
alone, family and friends visit often, in a van down by the river, on a pirate ship, with an insignificant other, with parents, with pets, with roommate(s)
Socially, they are
a couch potato, a total freak, anti-social, better in small groups, class clown, comic relief, dealing with OCD, home body, loner, shy at first, but warm up quickly, side kick, social butterfly, the life of the party
Political Views
conservative, democrat, independent, not interested in politics, progressive, reform party, republican
Food Related
Candiholic, Candy is a Food Group, Right?, Caribbean, Carnivore, Chinese, Chocoholic, Comfort, Diet Every Now & Then, Eat Out Frequently, Fast Food, Fine Dining, French, Hot Sauce on Everything, Indian, Italian, Japanese, Junk Food Junkie, Lactose Intolerant (am I sharing too much?), Mediterranean, Mexican, Omnivore, Organic, Raw Food, Soul Food, Soylent Green, Spicy, Thai, Vegan, Vegetarian
artistic, coffeeholic, conservative, dominatrix, extrovert, fashionista, freak, frugal, fun loving, geek, hipster, intellectual, introvert, loner, lover, nerd, pirate, preppy, professional, punk, romantic, thrifty, type a
actress, artist, designer, farmer, freak, mime, nudist, piercings, pirate at heart, rocket scientist, sculptor, superhero sidekick, tattoos
Religious Views
Catholic, Christian, Jewish, Messianic Judaism, Not Religious, but Spiritual
hard of hearing
does coffee count?, never, prescription only, straight edge
They are looking for
conversation, dating, mr. right, penpal, relationship, romance, soulmate, the yin to my yang
Their Sign
i don't believe in zodiac signs
Military Service
Bird, Birds, Cat, Cats, Dog, Dogs, Farm Animal, Farm Animals, Ferret, Ferrets, Fish, Guinea Pig, Guinea Pigs, Horse, Horses, Iguana, Rabbit, Rabbits, Rock, Small Furry Creature, Snake, Snakes, Spider, Spiders, Tribbles, Turtle, Turtles
Alternative Rock, Bluegrass, Celtic, Chamber, Choir, Christian Rock, Classical, Dance, Folk, Funk, Gospel, Hard Rock, Heavy Metal, House, Indie, Jazz, Jazz-Fusion, Metal, Motown, Pop, Post Rock, Progressive Rock, Punk, R and B, Reggae, Relaxation and Meditation, Rock, Ska, Soul, Techno, Trance, World
Fitness & Sports
cycling, dancing, golf, hiking, jogging, pilates, rock climbing, rowing, running, scuba, skateboarding, skiing, snorkeling, snowboarding, surfing, swimming, tennis, volleyball, walking, weightlifting, working out, yoga, archery, bowling
Health Related
alternative medicine, cancer survivor, diabetic, faith healing, folk medicine, herbalism, holistic treatment, homeopathy, minor dietary issues, minor health issues, naturopathy
American Sign Language (ASL), English, French, German, Italian, Pirate, Spanish, The Language of Love
Mother Tongue (INDIA)
English, French
Caste (INDIA)
Christian - Born Again

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